Lag BâOmer has always felt like a beautiful Jewish holiday to me, a hidden gemâa secret waiting to be discovered. Nestled in the middle of the Omerâthe 49 days we count between Passover and ShavuotâLag BâOmer gives us a joyful break in an otherwise quiet and reflective time. Itâs full of bonfires, weddings, haircuts, and community gatherings that make it one of my favorite times together with other families.
So, what is Lag BâOmer?
Lag BâOmer is the 33rd day of the Omer count (the word Lag comes from the Hebrew letters lamed and gimel, which add up to 33 in Gematria). Itâs a day that traditionally breaks a period of mourning, and instead we celebrate joy, resilience, and hope. Itâs connected to Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, a great sage who, according to tradition, passed away on Lag BâOmer and asked that the day be marked with happiness. It also commemorates the end of a terrible plague among Rabbi Akivaâs students.
Counting the Omer: My Familyâs Journey of Growth
Each night between Passover and Shavuot, we count the Omer. Itâs a ritual thatâs taught my family to slow down and appreciate each day. Itâs about more than countingâitâs about noticing. Weâve used it as a time to reflect on small but meaningful steps weâre taking in our own journey, just like our people did on their way from Egypt to Mount Sinai.
Why I Love Lag BâOmer: Bonfires, BBQs, and Being Together
Lag BâOmer has become a chance for my familyâand our communityâto get outside and celebrate! Whether itâs a picnic, bonfire, archery, music, or (my favorite) a backyard BBQ, itâs a time to unplug and reconnect with each other.
I especially love our Community Lag BâOmer Event. Itâs such a joy to see families come out and fill the space with laughter, music, and the smell of grilled food in the air. Whether you join us for the bonfire, the games, or just that special feeling of being together, you help make it magical every year.
Our Favorite PJ Library Read: Sadieâs Lag BâOmer Mystery
One of the ways we used to teach our now teenage children about the holiday was through the PJ Library book Sadieâs Lag BâOmer Mystery by Jamie Korngold. We read it every year when our children were small. In the story, Sadie and her brother Ori look forward to their annual picnic but are curious about what Lag BâOmer is really all about. Itâs sweet, engaging, and a perfect way for children to start understanding this lesser-known but meaningful holiday.
Not Getting PJ Library Books Yet?
If you are interested in getting books like Sadieâs Lag BâOmer Mystery and youâre a parent or grandparent of children under 9, donât miss out on PJ Library. They send free Jewish childrenâs books every monthâand the stories truly become part of your familyâs memories. Theyâve sparked countless conversations in our home, inspired crafts and cooking, and helped my children grow up proud of being Jewish. Sign up at www.pjlibrary.org and discover the joy of Jewish books and holidays together.
Wishing you a joyful, laughter-filled Lag BâOmer with sparks of light and togetherness!








