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Shavuot: More Than Just Cheesecake (Though We Love That Too!)

When I was growing up, Shavuot got left out of Temple celebrations in Religious School because the holiday always fell after Religious School had ended it’s year. It wasn’t until Confirmation that I learned about the holiday and the significance of it. I was one of the Torah readers for our confirmation service. The portion is actually the 10 commandments and I remember the words taking on new meaning.

Shavuot celebrates the giving of the Torah on Mt. Sinai. This was a transformational moment for the Israelites as a Jewish People. Moses receiving the 10 commandments from God on Mt. Sinai made us a cohesive group, with rules and laws and purpose, not just a group wandering in the desert escaping slavery. Accepting the Torah is a big deal—it was for them then, and it still is for us now.

In the Early Childhood Learning Center (ECLC), the themes we bring out on Shavuot are not new. They are things we talk about and practice all year long. Tikkun Olam (repairing the world) and Mitzvot (good deeds) are familiar words and actions. The “Book of Ruth,” a traditional Shavuot story, fits in well with our efforts to foster kind and caring friends who help each other. We look for ways to take care of the community around us. The 10 commandments themselves give us lots of room for discussion and conversation with our young friends. For example, we celebrate Shabbat in our classrooms and together, as a school, each week! Commandment 4 – CHECK!

And, of course… Shavuot is known as the Dairy holiday, in reference to Israel being a land that is flowing with milk and honey. Dairy treats are always a favorite. We sometimes even like to make our own ice cream in the classrooms (milk, sugar and a ton of shaking!) This and so many other activities are meaningful memories that are the building blocks of strong Jewish Identities for our kids and our families.

Chag Shavuot Sameach! Wishing you a meaningful holiday filled with ice cream (and maybe a few blitzes and absolutely some cheesecake.)

Conversation with the Curator: Four Questions with cartoonist and retired psychologist, Jim Wise

Comics and cartoons certainly seem to be having a moment, and maybe because many of us recognize a collective need to lighten up and laugh over the satire. Artists are still here for us, turning a mirror on reality – however crude the reality and the mirror – as a reminder of our shared humanity.

Can we lighten up and use humor to bring joy to others? Local “Artoonist” Jim Wise and his co-illustrators Larry Wiedman and Ola Betiku think so. And I agree. Giggle and groan with us in the Bodzin Art Gallery through July 1 and learn more about Jim’s process behind gag artoons below.

1. When did you start making cartoons, and what keeps you going?

I began cartooning back in my college days when I had the privilege of writing my own byline column, “On the Loose.” Back then, I wrote mainly political and satirical articles, sometimes drawing cartoons to supplement the content of my columns. In retrospect, I’d have to admit my graphic “artistry” left much to be desired. After college, my interest in writing continued. I resumed cartooning when I was close to retirement and “wisely” chose to employ skilled illustrators, Larry Wiedman and Ola Betiku, to visually convey my concepts. What keeps me going, I think, is bringing joy and laughter to others.

2. How did you gravitate to the medium and style you are working in?

I suppose I gravitated to cartooning as a way to combine my love of writing humor in a medium that allows for a quick turnaround from creation to completion to sharing with others. Historically, cartoons have always appeared in art galleries in various formats (single panel, comic strips, pop art etc) and there are a few museums in this country and abroad that focus solely on cartoons. My particular contribution is in creating single panel gag cartoons such as seen in the New Yorker or other publications and massively enlarging, digitally printing, mounting, framing and displaying them in solo art gallery exhibits as “artoons.”

3. You are a retired psychologist. Did humor and art play a role in your career, and does your experience helping people lend itself to inspiring your humor and art?

Early in my career I realized that it is impossible to stay angry, depressed and anxious when laughing. With some patients, I sometimes found that a humorous story that resonated with them worked better than Prozac and with far less side effects.

I think my professional work, observing the many facets of human behavior through a humorous lens, provided me with a gold mine of material as a writer and cartoon creator.

4. Do you have any advice to share with aspiring artists?

Here is my advice: First, it is imperative that as an aspiring artist you believe totally in your art, no matter what. Even if critics say you have no talent, that your art sucks, that art galleries will not exhibit your work unless you provide barf bags for visitors – do not be deterred. Secondly, you must devote 100% to your art, even if that means quitting your job, ending your marriage, having your kids forget who you are, and even your dog seeking a new owner. Eventually, you may end up living on the street, begging for change, rooting through garbage cans for scraps to eat. Then, one day, you may find yourself facing your darkest hour, realizing that no one may ever know or care about your art while you are alive or gone. This is the time, my friend, that you need to remember the story of Arnold Snerdly. Whom, you may ask, is Arnold Snerdly? Exactly.

The Paradox of Inclusion: Creating Dedicated Spaces for True Belonging

At a time where inclusivity is being challenged, it’s more important than ever to remember what it truly means. Building welcoming communities doesn’t require putting everyone in the same space; it requires creating the right spaces for people to thrive.

Within the setting of a Jewish communal organization, this may seem odd. Shouldn’t we be opening up all programming to all people? 

Yet true inclusion, especially for underrepresented and marginalized groups, often requires creating dedicated spaces where they can connect with others who share similar identities and experiences. These spaces serve as sanctuaries where individuals can explore their unique histories, address shared challenges, and build the trust necessary for belonging in broader communities. 

Take, for example, the integration of Russian-speaking Jews into the larger community at Pozez JCC in Northern Virginia. After the Save Soviet Jewry movement of the 1980s, Russian-speaking Jewish immigrants began arriving in large numbers to the United States. 

While the American Jewish community celebrated the freedom of their fellow Jews, they overlooked a crucial aspect of their integration: the vast cultural and historical differences between Russian-speaking Jews and American Jews.

For Russian-speaking Jews, their connection to Judaism was shaped not by synagogue attendance or holiday celebrations but by their experiences with antisemitism, the Holocaust, and a distant relationship with Israel. Many had never stepped foot in a synagogue, and their Jewish identities were formed largely through their oppression and through personal ties with family and friends, not through Jewish communal life.

The problem wasn’t merely a language barrier — it was a cultural one. And one that has persisted to this day.

Only a few years ago, Pozez JCC was struggling to attract Russian-speaking families to generalized programming. The solution was creating events specifically for their community, informed by a staff member with both a Russian-speaking Jewish background and a knowledge of the larger Northern Virginia Jewish community. And through those events, we recognized their lived experiences, unique Jewish traditions, and differing needs from the American population.

These programs were not about isolating Russian-speaking Jews. We had to create a space where they could connect with others who shared their history and cultural context.

The result: Russian-speaking Jews began to perceive Pozez JCC as a welcoming place to build community. They eventually started to attend generalized programming as well, fostering greater inclusivity for all.

Having this choice to exist in either space, generalized or specialized, informs Pozez JCC’s summer camp model as well. 

Camp Achva welcomes children of varying abilities between kindergarten and 10th grade, with teens participating as counselors in training. The camp brings children and staff of diverse backgrounds, beliefs, identities and needs together in a safe place to have a summer of fun and growth. Camp Kesher offers teens and young adults with disabilities a different option, one with greater support and a more specialized environment. Further still, Sunrise Day Camp – Greater Washington supports families with children battling cancer – all at no charge.

This setup allows families to select the environment that best meets their child’s needs, highlighting a central tenet of true inclusivity: choice. The camp programs are designed to ensure that every child has a successful summer within unique definitions of success.

Part of curating dedicated spaces is also ensuring that shared spaces do not put an onus of responsibility on marginalized groups to explain their history or justify their inclusion.

For years, colorism in the Jewish community has perpetuated the false belief that Jews are inherently white. This stereotype overlooks the vast spectrum of Jewish identity, and this erasure particularly impacts Jews of Color, who often face both racism and antisemitism. 

Not only must they navigate the challenges of both identities, but they are often expected to educate others about what it means to be a Jew of Color. This type of emotional labor is exhausting, especially when these individuals already have to fight for recognition of their Jewish identity.

Turning this individualized effort into a community-run educational opportunity signals that members of underrepresented communities have allies and that they belong. In September 2024, Pozez hosted The Abayudaya: Portrait of an African Jewish Community, a photo exhibit by Samantha Rose Mandeles featuring powerful images of the Abayudaya Jewish community in Uganda and Kenya.

The exhibit gave the larger Jewish community an opportunity to learn about Judaism in Africa in a space where everyone, whether familiar with Jewish diversity or not, could engage with a different aspect of Jewish identity, expanding cultural understanding in the pursuit of inclusion for Jews of Color.

To be sure, creating space for people to express multiple Jewish identities is not easy. It takes time, energy and resources. But if Jewish communal organizations are going to expand their outreach and serve all Jews, they need to think creatively about inclusivity.

In this spirit of solidarity, we call upon other Jewish organizations to join us in adopting these practices, acknowledging cultural distinctions and promoting cultural competence. When we respect the importance of choice and space for each community, we create a foundation for greater understanding and unity within the broader Jewish community.

LaNitra Berger serves as a board member of Pozez JCC and works as the Senior Director of the Office of Fellowships and Associate Director of the African and African American Studies Program at George Mason University.

Greg Feitel serves as the School-Age Services Director at Pozez JCC.

Zina Segal serves as the Senior Director of Community Impact and Engagement at Pozez JCC. 

Celebrating Lag B’Omer with BBQs, Community, and Stories that Spark Joy

Lag B’Omer has always felt like a beautiful Jewish holiday to me, a hidden gem—a secret waiting to be discovered. Nestled in the middle of the Omer—the 49 days we count between Passover and Shavuot—Lag B’Omer gives us a joyful break in an otherwise quiet and reflective time. It’s full of bonfires, weddings, haircuts, and community gatherings that make it one of my favorite times together with other families.

So, what is Lag B’Omer?
Lag B’Omer is the 33rd day of the Omer count (the word Lag comes from the Hebrew letters lamed and gimel, which add up to 33 in Gematria). It’s a day that traditionally breaks a period of mourning, and instead we celebrate joy, resilience, and hope. It’s connected to Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, a great sage who, according to tradition, passed away on Lag B’Omer and asked that the day be marked with happiness. It also commemorates the end of a terrible plague among Rabbi Akiva’s students.

Counting the Omer: My Family’s Journey of Growth
Each night between Passover and Shavuot, we count the Omer. It’s a ritual that’s taught my family to slow down and appreciate each day. It’s about more than counting—it’s about noticing. We’ve used it as a time to reflect on small but meaningful steps we’re taking in our own journey, just like our people did on their way from Egypt to Mount Sinai.

Why I Love Lag B’Omer: Bonfires, BBQs, and Being Together

Lag B’Omer has become a chance for my family—and our community—to get outside and celebrate! Whether it’s a picnic, bonfire, archery, music, or (my favorite) a backyard BBQ, it’s a time to unplug and reconnect with each other.

I especially love our Community Lag B’Omer Event. It’s such a joy to see families come out and fill the space with laughter, music, and the smell of grilled food in the air. Whether you join us for the bonfire, the games, or just that special feeling of being together, you help make it magical every year.

Our Favorite PJ Library Read: Sadie’s Lag B’Omer Mystery
One of the ways we used to teach our now teenage children about the holiday was through the PJ Library book Sadie’s Lag B’Omer Mystery by Jamie Korngold. We read it every year when our children were small. In the story, Sadie and her brother Ori look forward to their annual picnic but are curious about what Lag B’Omer is really all about. It’s sweet, engaging, and a perfect way for children to start understanding this lesser-known but meaningful holiday.

Not Getting PJ Library Books Yet?
If you are interested in getting books like Sadie’s Lag B’Omer Mystery and you’re a parent or grandparent of children under 9, don’t miss out on PJ Library. They send free Jewish children’s books every month—and the stories truly become part of your family’s memories. They’ve sparked countless conversations in our home, inspired crafts and cooking, and helped my children grow up proud of being Jewish. Sign up at www.pjlibrary.org and discover the joy of Jewish books and holidays together.

Wishing you a joyful, laughter-filled Lag B’Omer with sparks of light and togetherness!

More Than Just Flowers: Unpacking May Celebrations

The month of May is full of occasions recognized through celebration or commemoration, starting with May Day on May 1. I have a vague recollection of celebrating May Day as a kid at school but cannot recall why! According to Wikipedia, May Day is a European festival of ancient origins marking the beginning of summer, about halfway between the Northern Hemisphere’s Spring equinox and June solstice. Traditions include creating flower garlands, dancing around a Maypole (which I absolutely remember doing!), singing and bonfires. Did you know that May Day’s origin is with the Roman holiday Floralia celebrating the goddess of flowers. It’s no wonder why we hope April showers will bring May flowers!

On the second Sunday of May we celebrate Mother’s Day, honoring mothers and grandmothers and all they do for their children, families, and the community. It is usually a day for moms to feel pampered and special. Many receive flowers or flowering plants as gifts of appreciation. For me, being with family is wonderful, but not having to cook or clean-up is the best Mother’s Day gift ever!

When we think of May, we often think of college graduations and weddings. It turns out that May is the 4th most popular month to get married, after September, October and June. The temperate weather and beautiful blooms are two big factors for May’s popularity. Venues are often at their prettiest with flowers in bloom. Speaking of venues…if you have never been to Hillwood Estate in Washington, DC, consider coming with the J in May to see the exquisite mansion and breathtaking gardens.

Of course, the fourth Monday of the month is Memorial Day, a federal holiday that was created to honor and mourn those who lost their lives while serving in the United States military. It is often commemorated with wreath-laying at monuments and cemeteries, as well as parades. As the unofficial start of summer. Memorial Day with its three-day weekend, is when pools and beaches open for the season and many stores have big sales.

But did you know that May has been designated Jewish American Heritage Month or JAHM? Created in 2006 under President George W. Bush as a time to celebrate and learn about the contributions of Jewish Americans to American culture and society, it continues annually by Presidential Proclamation. As a result, JAHM is marked by events, educational initiatives, and public acknowledgements – to showcase the rich history and diverse experiences of Jewish Americans for more than 350 years. 

Locally, you can visit the Capital Jewish Museum in Washington D.C. | Official Site where you can learn about the history of our local Jewish community, and view photos and memorabilia. The museum has educational resources for teachers to talk about JAHM, too, and will have a new exhibit opening on May 16: LGBTJews in the Federal City. The J has taken several trips to CJM to view the permanent exhibits and special exhibits and our participants have enjoyed each one!

If you care to take a road trip to Philadelphia, you may want to explore the Weitzman National Museum of American Jewish History the organizer of JAHM and a fabulous museum.

JAHM encourages all Americans to learn about Jewish culture, history, and contemporary issues, fostering dialogue and promoting inclusivity and understanding within the broader American context. I hope you have an opportunity to participate in a JAHM event.

Finally, May is known as “Older Americans Month.” It’s a time to recognize the contributions of older adults, highlight aging trends, and reaffirm commitments to serving them. This year’s theme is “Flip the Script on Aging” prompting us to examine how we think, feel, and talk about aging both individually and as a society. If you are an ‘older adult’ and not receiving the monthly Golden Gazette newsletter from Fairfax County, consider signing up for it here: FairfaxCounty.gov/OlderAdults to be in the know!

I also encourage you to attend one or more of the following Pozez JCC adult programs taking place in May. We have a variety of programs for adults of all ages and stages, featuring relevant and interesting subject matter ranging from resources for seniors and weight loss to mansion and garden tours to Jewish film, music and cooking. As I always say, there is something for everyone at the J. Hope to see you here in May!

JCC Adult Program Calendar for May

May 7 @ 1pm-2pm – WISE Connect Demo Event – Pozez JCC

May 15-18* – JxJ 2025 – Pozez JCC (7 Jewish &/or Israeli films in Northern Virginia)

May 21 – Springtime Trip to Hillwood Estate – Pozez JCC

May 22 @ 6pm-8pm – Cooking Jewish, with Israeli Chef Nissimmi Naim Naor – Pozez JCC

May 30 @ noon-1pm – Needles & Nutrition: Demystifying GLP-1s & the Truth About Weight Loss – Pozez JCC

*The film” Charles Grodin: Rebel with a Cause” is a documentary about the contributions of Jewish American actor, comedian, author and activist Charles Grodin. The film will be screened at Cinema Arts Theatre on Sunday, May 18 at 2pm and will be followed by a conversation between the film director James L. Freedman and Pozez JCC Executive Director Jeff Dannick. Don’t miss it!