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My Home Court: Basketball and Belonging at the JCC

Basketball has been more than just a game to me. Growing up here, I have always considered our JCC my home, and the gymnasium my favorite room.

Not to say that I am good at basketball. Even on my best day, as a kid, I was nowhere near as competent on the court as the people I played with and against in rec leagues here. Nor was I anywhere close to being as good as the players on the Maccabi teams I faced when I traveled to Austin and Phoenix with our Maccabi Teams as a teenager. As an adult though, I come here, to my favorite room, every Sunday to play pick-up basketball because I enjoy the community found on the court and I appreciate that no matter who you are, when you step into the gym on a Sunday, you get to play.

Childhood Memories

As a kid, the JCC was a magical place. I remember being in the gymnasium almost every day playing a lot of basketball afterschool during Before-And-After-School-Enrichment (BASE). Note, it would have been every day, but on Fridays we got to watch a movie! When I think back to those afternoons, I can see the staff throwing basketballs across the gym into the hoop or dribbling around 10 kids to score, or just passing a ball back and forth on the floor with us. It made me feel connected to the group that everyone got to play, no matter our age or skill level. I don’t remember playing for points, keeping score, whether we dribbled or just ran with the ball away from someone else, or even caring what basket we shot at; what mattered was that we were playing and playing together.

As I got older, I got much better at basketball and spent more time in the afternoons during BASE balancing my want to get better at basketball with letting everyone play in the gym. My love of basketball only grew with these experiences.

Teenage Years

I remember as a teenager that basketball at the JCC became a little more competitive when I joined our Maccabi teams. The games were faster, they had stakes, and the friendships were deeper. We spent countless hours practicing, honing our skills, and strategizing for the next big game. Or at least it felt like we did. We had a few practices a week and spent a lot of our free time just goofing off in the gym. However, the destination trip that we took as a part of our Maccabi delegation was always something to look forward to once the camp seasons ended.

During my teenage years, basketball also became a way to cope with the challenges of adolescence. The court was a place where I could escape from the pressures of school and social life. It was a space where I could be myself, where my worries seemed to fade away with each dribble and shot. I spent a lot of weekends here in our gym just shooting, dribbling, and throwing the ball across the gym to see if I could make a full court shot yet.

Adulthood

Returning to our JCC as an adult, I feel that I see the basketball court in its entirety now. It is a place to practice and build skills, it is a place to chase my toddler around in the mornings as he tries to grab the ball, it is a place where the current kids in afterschool go to unwind, it is a part of my weekly workout routine, and it is a major part of my weekend. I find that my ability to play basketball has decreased somewhat from my teenage years, but that my enjoyment of basketball when I do play has increased exponentially. I think it’s because, through all these years, what I still find on the basketball court here is a sense of belonging. It is a place where if you come, you get to play.

Basketball at the JCC has been a constant in my life, a thread that weaves through my childhood, teenage years, and adulthood. It’s more than just a sport; it’s a community, a source of joy, and a lifelong passion. Whether I’m playing in a game, or simply shooting hoops for fun, the JCC basketball court will always be a place where I feel at home.

Finding Spring’s Joy: Turtles, Blossoms, and New Beginnings

Personally, this winter wore me down mentally. It was colder than I can remember being in a long while and, for me, going outside without good reason was not an option. Spring couldn’t come soon enough.

I adore spring in the Greater DC area; it brings a breath of fresh air, both literally and metaphorically. The cherry blossoms bloom, parks turn green, and the warmth of the sun ushers in a time of renewal. For adults and seniors, this season represents an opportunity to shake off the winter blues, reconnect with nature, and build meaningful bonds within the community. The changing of the seasons is a reminder that, like nature, we too are capable of renewal, growth, and embracing the beauty of what lies ahead.

One of the most iconic signs of spring in the Greater D.C. area is the annual cherry blossom bloom. These delicate flowers, with their soft pink and white petals, are a powerful symbol of resilience and rebirth. The trees, a gift from Japan in 1912, have become an annual spectacle, drawing visitors from all walks of life. For seniors and adults who have weathered many seasons, the cherry blossoms serve as a poignant reminder of life’s transience and the importance of savoring the present moment.

In Jewish tradition, we acknowledge this idea through the concept of “Hakarat Hatov”—recognizing the good in our lives. Much like the brief yet beautiful bloom of the cherry blossoms, we are encouraged to appreciate the fleeting yet meaningful moments that bring us joy and connection.

As I sit here writing this blog, I look out at the pond in my backyard and see the turtles sunbathing on the mound which will eventually spout a small water fountain in the coming days. Though the trees around the pond have barely begun to sprout their buds, this sign of early spring is a small moment in time that I treasure, knowing that warm weather is finally coming.

Spring also brings with it the celebration of Jewish traditions, such as Passover, a holiday deeply rooted in themes of freedom and renewal. After a winter of introspection, Passover provides a time for family gatherings, spiritual reflection, and the sharing of traditions.

If you’ve never experienced a Passover Seder before or are looking for innovative ideas for your own, our Passover Mock Seder & Chametz Dinner on Tuesday, April 8 will be a fun way to get together with friends and learn about this wonderful tradition.

After months spent indoors, spring invites us to embrace nature and prioritize wellness. The warm weather encourages outdoor activities, from biking outside with friends or gentle walks in the park to leisurely hikes in nature reserves. Being surrounded by the beauty of spring can boost mood, improve well-being, and inspire a renewed sense of energy. We have a fabulous spring trip planned for adults to visit Hillwood Estate and Gardens on May 21st with a tour of the beautiful gardens on the estate. If you’ve never been there or would love to see it again, please join us. What more could you ask for than enjoying the beauty of nature with your community and friends?

Spring in the Greater D.C. area offers a welcome reprieve from the long winter. It’s a season of renewal, a time to step outside, embrace the beauty of nature, and reconnect with others. For adults and seniors in the Jewish community, spring is a reminder that, just like the cherry blossoms, the turtles, and the daffodils, we too can emerge from the cold, find strength in community, and experience the joy of new beginnings. Whether through spiritual reflection, outdoor activities, or social events, spring brings with it an abundance of opportunities to rebuild connections, foster wellness, and celebrate the warmth of the season.

Navigating Cancer, Finding Community: The Sunrise Story

The world turned upside down the day Eliza, a vibrant three-year-old, was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia.

“It came as a complete surprise and was a very devastating diagnosis,” her mother, Sammi, recalled.

The eight months that followed in 2023 and 2024 were a blur of isolation and relentless treatment, a stark departure from the joyful rhythm of childhood. Preschool was abandoned, playdates vanished, and the word “no” became a constant, heart-wrenching refrain.

Beyond the emotional toll, the family faced a crushing financial burden, medical bills mounting with each procedure. But amidst the darkness, a ray of hope emerged: Sunrise on Wheels. This in-hospital initiative, a partnership between the Pozez JCC and Sunrise Association, transformed Eliza’s treatment days. A rainbow-colored trunk filled with games and a group of volunteers radiating warmth greeted her at every appointment.

“They were just the friendliest people,” Sammi shared.

The volunteers also introduced Sammi to Sunrise Day Camp – Greater Washington, a free, six-week summer haven for children (3 ½ to 16 years old) with cancer and their siblings.

Sammi was initially hesitant to relinquish the constant care she’d provided Eliza for eight months. However, she ultimately decided to give her a chance at normalcy and signed her up for camp. Sammi’s anxiety quickly dissipated as she witnessed the camp’s compassionate and specially trained staff, on-site medical support including a team of nurses supervised by a pediatric oncologist, and the sheer joy radiating from her daughter. With the help of adaptive equipment and skilled professionals, Eliza, a social butterfly, blossomed in the camp’s embrace, swimming, crafting, and playing with newfound vigor.

“Camp was her first introduction back into a group and being around other kids again,” Sammi explained.

Neshmy Zurita shared similar anxieties. Her son Matias, diagnosed with hepatoblastoma in May of 2023, relies on a feeding tube and rarely speaks. Further, his time outside their home had become synonymous with medical procedures, and Neshmy yearned to change that narrative. Sunrise Day Camp offered that change.

“I worried about how he would communicate and how he would do on his own,” Neshmy shared. “It gave me such peace of mind knowing he was in a good, safe, and loving place. I noticed how all the counselors would greet him and how he would go up and hug every single person. Despite being in treatment, he always had energy to go to camp because he wanted to be there so badly.”

For both Sammi and Neshmy, Sunrise Day Camp isn’t just a respite; it is a lifeline. They juggle full-time jobs with the demanding role of full-time caregivers for their children, their lives a constant cycle of appointments and medication schedules.

“Having camp was amazing,” Sammi emphasized. “We could focus on work, knowing she was getting quality care, and without the financial strain.” The camp provided six weeks of crucial support, a much-needed break for the entire family.

Eliza and Matias will return to Sunrise Day Camp – Greater Washington this summer, with Eliza’s younger sister excited to join in the fun next summer. This transformative experience, offered completely free of charge, is only made possible because of grants and generous contributions by our community.

To secure the continuation of these programs – a salvation to our Sunrise families – the J will host its fourth annual SunriseWALKS fundraising event, on Sunday, April 27, 2025 at National Harbor in Oxon Hill, MD. We hope you will start a team, join a team, or donate to ensure that we are able to continue to provide Sunrise Day Camp, Sunrise on Wheels, and Sunday Fun Days programming free of charge to our camp families throughout the year.

Your support of SunriseWALKS ensures that children like Eliza and Matias can continue to find joy and normalcy amidst their challenging journeys. Join us in turning the tide for these families; every step and every donation at SunriseWALKS brings hope and healing within reach.

Purim: A Holiday of Mitzvot and Merriment

If there’s a holiday that embraces fun, creativity, and community, it’s Purim! Think of it as the ultimate Jewish costume party—full of meaning. Every year, we celebrate the story of Queen Esther’s bravery by dressing up, giving to others, and, of course, indulging in plenty of hamantaschen or, in Israel, oznei Haman. Ears (oznei) or hats (Taschen)? You decide!

At my house, the costume planning is eclectic. Over the years, my kids have worn everything from Alexander and Eliza Hamilton to a cloud, including a mermaid, a vampire, the Millennium Falcon (epic!), a shirt that said “This is my Human Costume, I am Really a Cat,” and a ladybug. Purim is the one day where the more creative (or unexpected) the costume, the better!

But Purim isn’t just about costumes. It’s also a time to fulfill four special mitzvot (commandments):
👑 Hearing the Megillah – The Book of Esther is read aloud, and every time Haman’s name is mentioned, we drown it out with groggers (or just really loud cheering and stomping!). You can make your own, or use egg shakers and other instruments in your home.
🎁 Giving Mishloach Manot – We exchange festive food packages with friends and family. These little bundles of joy—often filled with hamantaschen, fruit, and treats—spread sweetness and connection.
💰 Giving Tzedakah – Purim reminds us to give to those in need, ensuring everyone can partake in the joy of the holiday.
🍽 Enjoying a Seudah – The Purim feast is a time to gather, eat, and celebrate with family and friends. It’s a meal filled with laughter, gratitude, and (if you’re lucky) an extra round of hamantaschen.

Speaking of hamantaschen, I have to share my favorite recipe! If you’ve never made these triangle-shaped cookies before, this best hamantaschen recipe is the perfect place to start. Whether you go classic with poppy seed filling or get creative – I won last year’s contest at the J with Halvah Brownie – they are a Purim must-have.

We at Growing Jewish Families can’t wait to celebrate with you! Look out for Purim events happening near you, and be sure to stop by in your best costume—we look forward to seeing what you come up with this year!

Chag Purim Sameach!  Happy Purim!